Monday, January 20, 2014

The Barn Charlie Built

Today, I took Evan to my mom's and we spent some time out on the farm.  I'm thankful that we are able to visit the land where 5 generations have lived (6 if you count the occasional visits from the previous generation).  Such family historical spots are increasingly rare with today's mobile families.






Evan played in the barn built by his great great grandfather, Charlie Ramsey, who owned this land from about 1930 until he passed it on to his daughter, Betty Madden. I remember Granddaddy Charlie building the barn soon after the house was built in the late 1960's.  My brother Randy Madden and later my son Joey have maintained it over the years. It is amazing how entering the barn takes me back to childhood and the times we played there and the animals that we had through the years - the pony Taffy, the pigs, goats, assorted birds including turkeys, guinea fowl, ducks, geese, peacocks, quail, easter egg chickens, Bantam (aggressive banty rooster), domineckers, and assorted others. A favorite game was to try to lock one another in the barn/stalls and then try to escape. I learned that i could crawl through the little adjoining doors (tiny doors for baby animals), then climb up the hay drop (what's the word for that area), then go through the loft and to the opposite row of stalls where I could work the lock loose. What adventures we had!

The old feed room is still in good shape, as is the tack room and the stairway.  It is a touching experience to spend time there, knowing that Charlie built it, his daughter Betty and husband Ed worked in it, his grandchildren Randy, Mike, and I kept animals there and played in it.  His great grandchildren Joey, Elizabeth, Randall, Jessica, Tyler, Zac and Eric played there and Joey has kept goats there for several years.  Now the great great grandchildren have the chance to visit and play.  

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Elizabeth turns 2 - 1987

Elizabeth's 2nd birthday party was held at my mom and dad's house in Cookeville, TN on the old Ramsey family farm property on or near July 20, 1987.  Gran and Granddad, as the kids called grandparents Betty & Ed Madden, were always excited for their grandchildren to come and visit.  Both my brothers and their families were present.  At this point there were three grandchildren: Joey (8 years old), Elizabeth (2) and Randall (a few months younger than Elizabeth).  Randy, Donna, Mike and Marlene were present in the video.  Special guests were my dad's sisters from Harlan County, KY.  Verna Madden, Ruth Smith and Faye Cochran.






Joey with the Harlem Globetrotters 1984

In 1984 Jeff and 5 year old Joey went to Tennessee Tech University to see the Harlem Globetrotters play basketball.  Joey had a great time and we were delighted to watch him on TV during a time for kids to go on court with the team.  He had a great time.  The video quality isn't fantastic since it was recorded on VHS from our poorly received local station but we still enjoy watching it!



Friday, November 2, 2012

The Rocker on the Porch

The rocker on the north porch was one of my grandfather (Papa) Charlie Ramsey's favorite spots at his cabin home in Cookeville, Tennessee (White County).  When weather was permitting and the work of the day was over, he would sit and view his land, observing the setting of the sun to the west.  This porch was often the gathering spot for the family in the evenings and on Sunday, particularly when the weather was too hot to stay indoors where there was no air conditioning.  Granddaddy kept cards received from loved ones on the wall of the porch where he could see and enjoy them.  Grandmother enjoyed the porch, too, but was usually busy cleaning up after dinner, doing laundry or cleaning in the evenings.  Granddaddy's evening always included time to read the Bible.  As he got older he would occasionally moan a bit as he sat, the pain of arthritis and heart problems gradually wearing him down til his death from this life April 16, 1982.

Charlie made chairs and probably had made the rocking chair on the porch as he did so many other chairs for the family.  He made several small rocking chairs (doll size) for his grandchildren and his daughter, Betty, still has a full size rocker which he made.  The rockers are basic and a bit rough, reflecting little time for the niceties of life with other tasks always demanding attention.  But the rockers, like everything else he did, were made with love and care.

We recently found a video made in 1978 following the birth of their great granddaughter Tabatha (born to Alfred & Tammy Foxworth Fowler (Seibers)).  This video shows granddaddy sitting on his favorite porch - from there he could see the lovely field and pine thicket north of his house and the view over to South Lovelady road, past the Luke farm.  The video shows the brown mobile home owned by their daughter Ruby in that direction and a bit further to the right you can see the lighter mobile home of Rook and Ann Lafever (another daughter).  He could also see off to the east across his property toward the Falling Water River.  You can see the home of Ed & Betty Madden (another daughter) built about 1968 in that direction.



In this video you see the playful nature of Alta Ramsey as she enjoys her new great-grandbaby Tabatha.  Tabatha's young mom, Tammy, is briefly shown though she is camera shy in this video.  Also in the video is Maelena and her dad.  The dogs in the video include a big black Irish Wolfhound mix, Chalk, and a white and black spotted dog cleverly named... Spot.  I don't remember the name of the shepherd in the video.  Seeing this video brings back memories of simpler times with family on the porch.

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Ruby N. Ramsey

Ruby N. Ramsey

Below is the obituary for my aunt, Ruby Nell Ramsey (Foxworth).  She passed away following a battle with cancer that lasted only a few weeks.  My earliest memories of her are of her fishing in the Falling Water River around my grandfather's farm where she lived most of my life.  When I was 18 we took a trip together with my mom, Ruby. and her youngest daughter, Tammy, to visit her oldest daughter, Debbie, and her family in Missouri.
RIP Ruby.


(February 22, 1934 - October 27, 2012) 

Ruby N. Ramsey
Funeral services for Ruby N. Ramsey, age 78 of Cookeville, will be held on Tuesday October 30, 2012 at 1:00 P.M. in the Chapel of Whitson Funeral Home with burial in the Howard Cemetery in Putnam Co. Bro. Gary Farris will officiate at the services.
The family will receive friends on Monday October 29, 2012 from 5:00 P.M. till 9:00 P.M. and on Tuesday October 30, 2012 from 7:00 A.M. till time of the services.
Ruby passed away on Saturday October 27, 2012 at the Cookeville Regional Medical Center.
She was born in Smith Co., TN on February 22, 1934 to the late Charlie and Alta Lucille Cowan Ramsey. Ruby was a Factory Worker at Acme Boot Co. She loved pictures and gardening.
SURVIVORS INCLUDE: (2) Daughters & Sons-in-law: Tammy & Jimmy Seibers – Cookeville, TN Debbie & Joe Griffin – Kansas
Son & Daughter-in-law: Tommy & Joette Foxworth – Lebanon, TN
(2) Brothers & Sisters-in-law: George Thomas & Ann Ramsey – Rickman, TN Izel & Maelene Ramsey – Cookeville, TN
(3) Sisters: Martha Ann Lafever – Cookeville, TN Betty Sue Madden – Cookeville, TN Emma Jean Ramsey – Cookeville, TN
(6) Grandchildren: Tabatha Fowler – Nashville, TN, Amber Fowler – Cookeville, TN, Sammy Foxworth – Florida, Charlie Foxworth – Cookeville, TN, Gregg Griffin - , and Chuck Griffin – New Mexico
(2) Step-Grandchildren: Angel Myers – Lebanon, TN Brandon Webb – Nashville, TN
Several Great-Grandchildren & Special Great-Grandbaby Baylin Fowler – Cookeville, TN
Very special friend: Lynn Harris – Cookeville, TN
A host of Nieces, Nephews, and Friends
In addition to her parents, Ruby was preceded in death by (2) Sisters: Louise Lafever and Frances Patuna
Granddaughter: Kendra Griffin – Oklahoma
Family and Friends will serve as pallbearers
Whitson Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.


Sunday, October 16, 2011

My Brother, Mike

My brother Mike is a Pastor at the Brindley's Chapel Church of God.  Mike is the closest in age to me, with Randy being the oldest of the three of us.  Yes, I am youngest despite what Mike may say.  I remember so well the day Michael became a Christian.  It was during a revival week with Wayne Depew as the Evangelist.  Mike sought out Brother Wayne during the day in order to talk to him about the Lord and how to get saved.  When I heard at church that night that he had become a Christian it was definitely one of the happiest days of my life as no other member of my immediate family was attending church or living for the Lord at that time.

Mike grew so rapidly in his knowledge of the Word.  He and his co-workers started using their break time for Bible Study.  He was so faithful to the Lord and the church - maturing quickly in his Christian experience.  He felt God's call to go into ministry and responded and starting pastoring.  Anytime that I have been able to sit in a service with Mike's preaching, I have been blessed.  He does an excellent job of presentation, of mixing in humor and staying true to God's Word.

I am very proud of my brother Mike and the way that he has served God.  I couldn't attend Pastor Appreciation today, but I certainly do appreciate him and pray for God's best for his future.

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Madden Family KY Home - If These Walls Could Talk


If These Walls Could Talk

The Story of the Madden Family home - by Peggy Madden Harmann


There would be tales of great happiness and deep sorrow; tales of everyday life in this Appalachian holler known as Bill’s Creek.

My walls were raised in the early 1900’s, most likely by Joseph Thomas and his wife Laura Napier Thomas after their Christmas Eve wedding in 1900. Joe was a hardworking timberman and a dedicated father to his three daughters: Hannah, Levi and Dora.

Life was hard in Bill’s Creek – nothing came easily. The high mountains and rocky soil made hard work and long hours a normal way of life. No doubt Joseph cut and hauled the mighty trees from which my walls were made. I was a humble building – only two rooms, but this provided shelter to my beloved occupants.

Life progressed as normal – hard work and good fun. Joe would pack in food on his horse from neighboring community stores when needed to supplement our garden produce during the icy winters and humid summers. Joe didn’t know how to read or write, but he did know how to provide for his wife and daughters.

I watched as the girls grew into pretty young ladies and married. Hannah married a local boy, Dewey Hensley, in 1918. 13-year-old Levi married Elijah “Lige” Madden in 1914, and 15-year-old Dora married Lige’s cousin, George Madden, in 1921. I would later be a home to the families of Lige & Levi as well as George & Dora Madden.

Life had been quite happy within my walls… that is until July 7, 1926 – just three days after our country celebrated the 150th anniversary of freedom. On the street in front me, disaster struck. Tempers flared, shots were fired. When the smoke cleared, Joe lay dead in the street. Later that day the other gunman, Green Presley, died. Green was the brother of Joe’s sister-in-law, Millie Presley Thomas (wife of Samuel). Both Joe and Green were buried within three days on the mountain behind me.

The absence of funeral parlors on Bill’s Creek meant that many bodies were brought within my walls for the final visit of their family and friends. Normally, family would sit up through the night, sharing their memories as well as their sorrows. Three such sad evenings followed the deaths of Lige & Levi’s children. In 1918, 5-month-old Simon died of colitus. He was followed in death by

two-year-old Martha in 1932 and two-year-old Lawrence in 1933.

George and Dora expanded my walls, adding a kitchen, dining room and bedroom over the years. After some troublesome years, George and Dora were finally remarried right in my kitchen on July 12, 1936 by Baptist minister, Akles Wynn. Their 12-year-old daughter, Verna, witnessed the ceremony along with her 2nd cousin, Green Madden.

Ten months later, another daughter, Mona Ruth, was born in one of my bedrooms. Although only five years old at the time, brother Ed remembered being told to go play at the far end of the hog yard during this birth. What excitement within my walls – another generation of the Madden family entering the world!

As Joe’s wife, Laura, entered her fifties she contracted tuberculosis. This dreaded disease was running rampant through the mining camps and called for critical measures. Abiding by doctor’s orders, she was quarantined in one of my bedrooms – shut off from the rest of the family. Dora and Verna would leave food outside her door to avoid catching the disease. Eventually Laura recovered enough to return to a more normal life.

With his hard-earned wages from the Peabody mine, George decided to invest in something innovative – a shower! A bath house was build just behind me. There, George installed one of the first showers on Bill’s Creek! A later addition included an indoor restroom – what luxury!

I watched as the children grew up and headed to Michigan – the land of jobs away from the coal mines. Verna, Ruth, and Fay returned to Bill’s Creek. Ewell and Ed were frequent visitors over the years. My walls have since been filled with happy sounds of visiting children and grandchildren.

The garden spot once plowed by Grandpa Isaac Madden and his mule still flourishes. The bushes carefully tended by Dora are still in the yard. Verna has made sure I was kept in excellent condition throughout these later years. The cemetery on the mountain has grown to include other friends and family over the years. Many things have changed on Bill’s Creek – cars and four-wheelers have replaced the horses, telephones now ring and electric lights glow in place of oil lamps. One thing has not changed – I am still regarded as the homeplace of the Madden’s of Bill’s Creek.